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Wednesday, 7 January 2009

Back To Work (booooo!)

Well, the year has just changed from 2008 to 2009 and Mandi and I have been back in the UK for just under 8 months. We typed up our last few blogs around a week after we finished our trek in Nepal (understandably there were few opportunities to update the blog on the remote trails of the Rowlaling!) but then lost all momentum when we returned home and couldn't bring ourselves to publish them as it would be the last act of an amazing trip and would feel like it was finally over. But, we've had a few people asking when they would be able to read the last few entries, and with the Christmas break there was time to spare for spending a few minutes on the computer and updating the site - plus with the New Year arriving we should be looking forward not thinking back to what we were doing this time last year (which has been happening a lot in the last few months!). So with that, we've finally published the last few blogs from immediately after the trip, and updated the site to finish the journey. Unfortunately the last few blogs are slightly out of order as Mandi and I typed them seperately when we got home, but I'm sure you'll still be able to follow them!

We had an amazing time from Nov 07 to May 08, it is something that we'll never forget. It was filled with unbelievable experiences and we came home energised and motivated (just not motivated to update the site and finally bring closure to the trip) and are now looking forward to the challenges ahead and the opportunties they will bring. We hope that you enjoyed following us on our journey through the blogs and the photos. We have also created a half an hour highlight video that we will try and publish to the betterthanwork.com site.

It was an amazing six months, I would say a once in a lifetime trip but we have every intention of making sure we don't just do this once. There are (hopefully) plenty more years ahead, and plenty more adventures and experiences to fill them with, so watch this space!

Until next time....

Thanks
Steve and Mandi

Tuesday, 10 June 2008

Beaten Track – Where?!

I’ve mentioned the “beaten path” several times in this blog and there is no better place to feel like you are getting off it than Nepal. True, the Everest base camp and Annapurna regions can be heaving, but even they, by comparison with many popular tourists spots are relatively quiet. And just a few hours out of Kathmandu you can find yourself driving down a road to nowhere to start a trek that will lead you through untouched villages and no sign of anyone but locals for nearly three weeks – nothing else we’ve ever done on our travels can come close to this sense of adventure.

We had read about the Rolwaling valley trek with ascents of Parchemo and Ramdung and thought we had a pretty good idea of what we would be facing, having also previously trekked the Everest trail and summited Mera Peak. However we failed to account for moving glaciers and other such dynamic factors! Our first adventure was hiding out in a local house for a day during the national elections, the first for Nepal, as we had been warned that it would be best not to be seen on the trails. Then we had several route issues due to landslides and new roads being built. Once we got to a decent height, we were then faced with a completely different route to the traditional one for Ramdung (much harder, but more fun!) and significant changes in route across the glacier up to the Tashi Lapcha. We really enjoyed it and had an amazing summit day, but it was without a doubt the hardest couple of weeks of our lives! The downsides of summit day were that I was left with a respiratory infection and Steve with the beginnings of frost bite and we were unable to recover quickly enough for an ascent of Parchemo. It looks like a really beautiful mountain so we’ll just have to go back for it!

As always, seeing the incredible scenery of Nepal was but a close second to spending time with the sherpa people. We often see people trekking without guides and they really are missing the point. Don’t get me wrong, for those who are doing serious and dangerous mountaineering, the less sherpas they use the better as far as I’m concerned – I know the sherpas can make more money on these expeditions but at what cost? Pumori is notorious for regular avalanches, yet still Westerners send sherpas up there to fix ropes and many of them are killed – fix your own ropes if the risk is that high or climb easier mountains!! But trekking is safe and for the trekker it is better in every way if undertaken with a sherpa guide.

As an aside related to the sherpas… we think we have a pretty good handle on ethical travelling and responsible giving: we know not to pay the dollar to free the bird from a cage as it just encourages the capture of more birds – give the dollar to an animal welfare centre instead; we know not to give money to children begging as it encourages their families to continue sending them onto the streets – give the money to local schools/child welfare instead; we know to properly research an issue/institution before supporting it. We know to organise our treks through Community Action Treks for many reasons: because ALL the profits go to Community Action Nepal which supports local projects such as school and hospital building, with sustainability as a priority; because they pay a good wage to all their staff; because they provide good equipment and training to all staff; because they enforce a minimum age and maximum load for porters; because they organise insurance for their staff and so on; because they have the best staff and most amazing treks! But when the 16 or so sherpas come storming past you at 5700m with 30kg loads over a crevassed glacier, (and still singing as always) your first thought isn’t, “that’s good, we’re providing well paid, responsible employment for all those people for three weeks” – you just feel guilty! Consequently, our only mistake when in Nepal is that we always tip well over the recommended amounts - yes, we also know the negative issues that can arise from this, but feel having been there several times, we get to know our boys well enough to decide what is appropriate and where misuse might occur.

NB. This and the following entries were effectively written in the places to which they refer, however there is limited access to email in the Himalayas so they were only typed up a week after we got home!

Mandi

Better Than (a) Wedding - the whinge

It is no secret that marriage is not something I’ve ever really wanted, especially the traditional white wedding bride part. This has always tended to meet with one of two assumptions: either I am desperate and therefore lying, or I am weird. Steve and I have been together seven years and he wanted us to get married 5 years ago, which should be enough to refute the first option, but I will accept weird as it implies different – not always a bad thing!

Despite my reasons being based on logic, (which I have yet to find anyone able to pick any decent size holes in) I have also been struck by reactions to my point of view. Interestingly, if a man makes a comment to the effect that marriage is unnecessary or unwanted, that is considered acceptable if not normal. However if a woman holds the same views, it is often seen as a challenge to those who follow a traditional route. This is unfair and frankly insulting in many ways, but in particular, I am, and always have been, perfectly capable of supporting friends and others with different views to my own. I have been to many traditional weddings of friends and could not be happier to be there to see their dreams come true. But that doesn’t mean I have the same dreams.

So why the change of heart? As I haven’t room to go into all the reasons for my standpoint, neither can I fully explain the reasons for the compromises we reached but I guess they can be summed up thus: largely due to travelling I expect, we have learnt, or rather are still learning to accept that we have to live in the world as it is. My reasons for not marrying still stand however and I still await a good argument against my logic!

Of course there was also the added complication that I managed to find the perfect man – not something that I would ever have believed could exist. Being the perfect man, Steve has the rare quality of possessing the balls to do things his own way and our sherpa wedding at Thame gompa, mid-trek, was as different a wedding day from the traditional “Western” one as you could ever imagine. The day before our ceremony we had our first shower (i.e. water and soap, not as in the American version!) for two weeks – no bride ever enjoyed her pre-wedding shower more than I did! It was even a ‘proper’ shower and not just a bucket of water as we had expected – luxury. Being in the Himalayas, we of course had a more beautiful blue sky than we could ever see at home, even on the clearest day. My hairdresser was me, with my little travel brush inside our tent. My car was my walking boots and poles. Sonam organised traditional sherpa outfits for us, (and I had gone to the extravagance of getting a traditional Tibetan dress made) but underneath these were our trekking clothes and boots. Our backdrop was Kantega, Thamserka and Cho Oyu, with Chomolongma (Everest) just around the corner. Our wedding breakfast was Tibetan tea, chang, chang and more chang! The one Western tradition we adhered to was the “something borrowed…” one, (I’m ridiculously superstitious and didn’t want to tempt fate!) and my something blue was Steve’s trekking socks that he washed for me the day before. In my book, THAT is true romance! But then, I’m weird.

Mandi

Wednesday, 28 May 2008

Brilliant Treat Week!

India has always been one of my favourite countries. Although I have really only spent three weeks here for any significant chunk of time, Mandi and I have visited for the odd day or two at the beginning and end of previous trips to Nepal and there is always a welcoming feeling in its colourful, chaotic streets. Until the discoveries we made on this trip (really didn’t expect to like Chile as much as we did) I would have previously always said that, taking Nepal out of the equation, India was my favourite country in the world. Although there may be one or two places that could now challenge it, it is still a wonderful place that Mandi and I both love, and it made sense to plan our final week here as a kind of honeymoon (taking the last five and three quarter months as one long wedding). And as it was our honeymoon, it didn’t take much to convince ourselves that after five and three quarter months of backpacking, (including six weeks of trekking), it should be a treat before facing the end of our journey!

When Mandi and I visited India in 2004, we found a deal on the internet for the Imperial Hotel on Janpath in New Delhi – it was a wonderful surprise. The hotel is an old colonial building where, it is rumoured, Ghandi once sat down with Lord Mountbatten and future Prime Minister Nehru to discuss the thorny issue of India’s partition. It doesn’t look like it has changed much since. The walls are lined with works of art, all hundreds of years old, each depicting moments and places from India’s history during the time of British occupation. The rooms still have wonderful high ceilings, the furniture has an early 20th century feel and the swimming pool and spa – well OK, they aren’t a left over from this building’s colonial history, but are a very welcome modern addition! In fact, that blend of old and new is one of the things that makes the Imperial so special. It was always a hotel that Mandi and I said was probably our favourite and so we decided our time in New Delhi should be spent staying there once more. It was just as good as we remembered, a perfect base for exploring Delhi, complete comfort, and we even got a free upgrade to a suite because we were on Honeymoon!

After three nights in Delhi, we then moved on to Agra for one night and a visit to the Taj Mahal. The beautiful white building with its teardrop dome sitting against the sky of the setting sun is a sight that is hard to beat. It is certainly one that is hard to catch on camera. There had been many times in the past when I have seen pictures of the Taj Mahal, and although it always looked an impressive building, I didn’t expect to have my breath taken away quite as much as I did when stood at the end of the long carpet of water that extends from its door. Although I have been to man made structures that I still find more impressive and, overall, prefer to the Taj Mahal (Petra and Angkor Wat to name two), there are few, if any buildings that can match it for aesthetic perfection. The Taj was built by Shah Jahan, the fifth Mughal Emperor as a tomb for his wife who died in childbirth. Shah Jahan was so distraught at losing the love of his life that he dedicated over 22 years creating a tomb of such perfection and beauty that it reflected all that his wife was in life. The construction of the tomb, in today’s terms, would cost US$70 Billion, and it was seen as the final straw by his son who used its construction as an excuse to take his fathers throne and imprison him for the rest of his days in a cell that looked over the Taj Mahal. Shah Jahan never managed to step foot in the immaculate building he had constructed as his wife’s final resting place.

Our next stop (and last stop before returning to Delhi on our whistle-stop tour) was the pink city of Jaipur. This capital of the desert state of Rajhastan was painted pink in celebration of the visit of the Prince of Wales in 1853 and has retained this appearance ever since. It is home to some of the magnificent old buildings from the time of the Raj, including the Rambagh Palace which is now a five star hotel and the place that Mandi has always said possibly challenges the Imperial as her favourite hotel (she was lucky enough to stay here ten years ago when, along with five friends, they were able to get Indian national rate for a room that they could all share) – after now staying there myself, I have to agree with her. Before becoming a hotel, the palace was the home of Rajmata Gayatri Devi who was the wife of the last King of Jaipur (Maharaja Sawai Man Singh II) and was once one of the most famous people in the world. After independence, the building was eventually converted into a hotel but it still has the feel of a palace, and as a place to stay, there can be few to rival it for luxury, service, but most of all, its charm and romantic atmosphere. Outside the hotel gates, the city of Jaipur provides a number of places to explore. Hawa Mahal (palace of winds) is a thin façade that provided a gallery from which the Royal women could look down over the streets of Jaipur without being seen by the public. Jantar Mantar (the observatory) houses a number of constructions for astronomy, but most impressive houses one of the largest sundials in the world that is accurate to within 2 seconds. Finally, the Royal palace houses the possessions and memories of the Kings and Queens that ruled this city before independence made them almost obsolete. But most impressive of all is the Amer Fort (sometimes called Amber Fort). This huge construction actually sits 20 mins drive from Jaipur high on the slopes of the surrounding sandstone mountains. It was the home of the Royal family before they were forced to move their capital to the new city of Jaipur due to overcrowding and paucity of water in Amer. The fort was originally built in 1592 and has never had much in the way of restoration, and yet it is still wonderfully preserved and a great insight into the way of life in this country before the British arrived. We spent a day exploring the Amer Fort and Jaipur’s other sites before returning dirty and tired to our hotel – the perfect excuse (along with the rigours of a six week trek) to treat ourselves to a relaxing massage before settling down with a glass of wine on the penultimate evening of our week of treats and the penultimate evening of our round the world trip.

The last six months have been unbelievable. When starting out on something like this there is always a bit of trepidation about the upheaval of basically suspending ‘normal’ life and setting of an a nomadic six months of exploring a pathetically small sample of all the wonders and diversity that the world has to offer. As we now sit on the brink of our return home, there are a number of things to feel depressed about, but most of these can be offset by the thought of seeing family and friends again – the one thing we have missed since we left the UK. The one thing that can’t be offset, however, is time together. Travelling means Mandi and I exploring new countries and new places together, waking up together in new cities and walking together through new streets and around (or over) new mountains. Normal life means being at work for nine or ten hours in the day and then having extra time taken up sorting things at home, it means ten or more hours apart every day, and despite all the new places we won’t be seeing when at home, or new experiences we won’t get to share, that time apart is going to be the hardest thing about returning to normal life. We’ve had many people tell us that spending money on a six month long ‘wedding’ rather than one day at home is a great idea, others sometimes seem to look as us with a large amount of confusion when we tell them, but one thing that I can say for certain about the last six months is that it has proved how much Mandi and I love each other and how much we are meant to be together – to steal a line from Hollywood, we complete each other. It is that commitment that a wedding is supposed to demonstrate, that is the promise that people make, and so despite the various opinions we have encountered to our approach, one thing that is undeniable is that over the last six months, without a shadow of a doubt, every day has only re-enforced how much Mandi and I love each other and how much we are meant to be together. Oh, and giving us an excuse for one last week of luxury wasn’t a bad added bonus!

Steve

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Friday, 23 May 2008

Better Than (a) Wedding – the facts

There is a lot to be said for doing something your own way. Although both Mandi and I are aware of how much family and friends wanted to be with us on our wedding day and we regret disappointing them in any way, it is also supposed to be our day, and it was exactly what we wanted – it couldn’t have been more perfect.

We had a blessing from an old monk who meditated on our future and predicted that we would live past 108 and have three boys and two girls. We had the most breathtaking backdrop that anyone could ever imagine. We had each other in the country we love the most. We were able to share our love without worrying if others were having a good time, if the caterers had remembered the special food requests, if the DJ was going to show up and if the guests were getting bored while we had photographs taken! Although we were accompanied by all the boys from our trek (whose genuine happiness for us helped to make it extra special) in effect, it was just the two of us – and isn’t that what it is supposed to be about anyway?

Unfortunately, the one downside to all this is that it meant navigating Nepal’s infuriating bureaucracy and infrastructure – a real challenge. So for anyone who is thinking of getting married over there, here is a guide to what we had to go through….!

It started off simply enough. We had to fulfil a requirement of being resident somewhere in the last three months, for more than 21 days. Wherever that was, we needed to display notice of our intent to marry for a further 21 days. If we had gone to Nepal straight from home, we could easily have done this at the local registry office, but as we had been travelling we needed to find somewhere else. Luckily, our trip to Thailand was easily extendable to 21 days and so on the day we left Bangkok for Laos, we paid a visit to the British Embassy there and gave our notice. They then displayed this for 21 days in the embassy and after they received no objections from anyone, faxed the details through to the British Embassy in Kathmandu, which takes us on to the next step….

After arriving in Kathmandu, we visited the embassy and they used the information from Bangkok to issue a ‘letter of no impediment to marriage’. They also gave us copies of our declaration, affidavit and information that had been displayed in Bangkok. We would need copies of all of these for the process.

So far so good, but then we had to go to the CDO in Kathmandu and that was where the real fun began. The next two days involved a tortuous process of getting paperwork checked and rechecked in the various rooms of the CDO, then things being stamped, and then as we thought we were getting somewhere, being told we now needed to take everything and go to another place in Kathmandu to get further documentation. Unfortunately they don’t give you a list at the start of what you need so you end up just going back and forth in a seemingly endless loop. If anyone reading this is thinking of doing the same thing, it can be done, but allow 5 days of running around to be safe, and for the record, the following is what you’ll need to obtains:







  • A letter from your hotel stating that you are staying there between certain dates (make sure it states that you will still be there 16 days after the initial date as this is when the registration should be completed).



  • A letter from the Hanumandhoka police station in Kathmandu (near Durbar Sq) that will then need to be taken to the local police station near where you are staying and then back to Hanumandhoka for verification! This is just to confirm you don’t have a criminal record in Nepal,



  • A completed registration from (you get this from room 11 in the CDO but will need help filling it in unless you can read Nepalese)



  • A witness form (again get from CDO) signed by three witnesses who must then also be willing to go with you to the CDO later on to sign the register



  • Your original passports with Nepalese visas



  • At least 10 passport sized photos each



Once you have all of those items, take a lot of photocopies as you’ll have to give copies of everything to at least 5 separate rooms in the CDO. You will then have the fun process of running between the different departments (mainly rooms 11, 9, and 15) in the CDO, often having to come back the next day as the person you want to see isn’t there.

Contrary to information we read on the internet, once you have started this process and given in all the paperwork, you don’t have to stay in Kathmandu for the next 16 days and can go off trekking in that time. You’ll need the break after all that! However, when you do finally complete the process, you get to be legally married in the most stunning scenery on the planet and get a certificate in Nepalese and English to prove it (complete with an Everest stamp). Perfect.



Steve

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Saturday, 5 April 2008

(I) Bet That Worked?!

The last time we came to Nepal, when we climbed Mera Peak, we spent six months beforehand working hard in the gym, eating healthily and spending most weekends walking over 20 miles in the lake district. The preparation was well worthwhile as we successfully made it to the top - but only just, and the summit day was still very physically draining even after all that training. So now that we are about to attempt two himalayan summits, you would have thought that an equal amount of training would be sensible, and we'd agree. Except this time we've been travelling around the world, and despite doing some treks on the way, have not really done anywhere near what we did last time and have spent the last 6 weeks in South East Asia eating well (but not really healthy) and lying on beaches or exploring towns rather than getting in shape. Ooops. But, not to panic, because one thing Mandi read once was that whenever Doug Scott (see below) went on mountaineering expeditions he never did any training and just used the months it took to trek in (carrying 50kgs) and gradually ascend the mountain to prepare him physically for the final climb. So surely a quick 8 day trek in the Annapurna Sanctuary carrying just our daysacks (about 5kgs) would be enough for us?!!

OK, so that might be optimistic, but we've always said that the best way to train for a trek in the Himalayas is to trek in the Himalayas. There is no other way to prepare for the daily walking at that altitude. I guess now we get to see if that theory works!

Anyway, back to the Annapurna Sanctuary trek. Before I say anything about the place, I have to say that the best thing about trekking here isn't just the scenery, but also the fantastic people. The mountain people of Nepal must be some of the nicest, friendliest and most caring people in the world, and it is a joy to spend time with them. Community Action Treks once again provided us with a brilliant guide - Bala - for whom nothing was too much trouble, and would spend hours answering our endless questions and patiently teaching us Nepali words that we had to re-ask for about 5 times before they finally sunk in. Our porter was Bisal who never stopped smiling, despite the fact he had to carry 20kgs of our stuff every day, who is enthusiastic about everything (we never tested this, but I'm sure that if you asked him to clean out every toilet in every tea house on the trek he'd still do it with a smile on his face) and who is the funniest person in the world to play cards with! They made the trek the fantastic experience that it was and anyone who comes here, buys a map and does it themselves is really missing out.

Back to the actual trek - the first thing that strikes you about this one is how close the mountains are. Unlike the Khumbu, where you don't really see Everest (Chomolongma to give it the original Tibetan name and not the name of the British surveyor who never even saw it) and Ama Dablam etc until you have walked for 4 days (or 10 days if you trek from the end of the road at Jiri rather than cheating and flying past the first part of the trek to Lukla), the big mountains of Annapurna South and Machapuchare are visible from the city of Pokhara. Every day of the trek they are looming above you, and in typical himalayan style, you would guess they are only a days walk away. The thing about these mountains is that your brain never quite comprehends how big they really are and so it throws your sense of distances completely out of whack and so four days later you are still walking towards them!

When you finally reach the Annapurna base camp though, it is spectacular. The mountains surround you in an ampitheatre of 7000m+ rock faces all covered in pristine snow that reflect the glow of the early morning sunrise and so take on a warm orange colour - a bit ironic considering that you're freezing when you get up in the morning to walk there! The face of Annapurna south looks down imposingly from the West, seemingly only metres away, whilst back down the trail, the beautiful summit of Machapuchare towers above you from the East, the sun rising just to left of its summit. Machapuchare is one of those genuinely beautiful mountains that has a triangular summit, similar to the sort a child would draw if asked to draw a mountain, but with a secondary summit linked by a long ridge giving it a "fish tail" appearence, hence the name (Machapuchare literally means "Fish Tail" in Nepali). It has steep angular sides that rise uninterrupted from the valley below. From Pokhara and on the early days of the walk, the angle you view the mountain from hides the second summit giving it a perfect triangular appearance, but as you walk along the trail, the true shape is finally revealed, and from every angle it is a peak that demands to be photographed. We know, we took hundreds in a futile attempt to capture it's magnificence on film (suppose that should be capture it in a series of 1s and 0s on memory card, but doesn't quite sound right!).

The trek in takes you through some magnificent scenery and is a wonderful 8-14 day trek (depending on how far you want to go each day), but for us, it still doesn't quite beat the Khumbu region. I'd highly recommend this trek to anyone, but if you are coming to Nepal and only have time for one trek, although its Western neighbour does give it a run for its money, the Khumbu is still the place to head for. Whether it is to Everest Base Camp, Gokyo Ri, or just the week long trek to Tengboche, you would still see, in my opinion, the most breathtaking natural scenery in the world, and in Ama Dablam, the most beautiful mountain (although again, Machapuchare runs it close). But if you have time for two treks in Nepal, come to Annapurna first. You never know, it might be the perfect training for your second harder trek to the Khumbu!

Steve

PS - Doug Scott, for those who don't know, is a famous British mountaineer who along with Dougal Haston was the first man to summit the South West face of Everest and who has spent much of his life outside climbing setting up and supporting the charity "Community Action Nepal" which helps build infrastructure for the families living in the Himalayan mountains (who are often some of the poorest people in the world) and building shelters and medical centres which help save the lives of porters every year. The trekking arm of this charity, Community Action Nepal, is brilliant and all profits go back into the charity. They are also consistently the best trekking agency in all of Nepal if ever you are planning to come here!

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Thursday, 27 March 2008

Blog That Wasn't

It turns out that the biggest 'muppet' moment of our trip so far wasn't one we made on the spur of the moment whilst getting off a bus, tired after hours of travelling. Instead, it was a decision we could have corrected at any time during our planning in the run up to this trip! When we looked at flights, we found that Air Asia didn't fly from Siem Reap to Bangkok, it only flew from Siem Reap to Kuala Lumpur or Phnom Penh to Bangkok. As we weren't going to get time to visit Phonm Penh, the flight to Kuala Lumpur and then on to Hong Kong was the obvious choice, turns out we should have thought more carefully. After dragging our bags full of mountaineering equipment around South America (bear in mind this is equipment we won't need until the end of our trip in Nepal) the realisation hit us that it would be much easier just to leave it all in Bangkok and travel round South East asia with our small backpacks. Of course this would mean returning to Bangkok and then flying onto Hong Kong rather than going to Kuala Lumpur. As it was only a five hour drive from Siem Reap to Phonm Penh, turns out we could easily get there before the flight, and so the correct option all along was get the bus to Phnom Penh and fly to Hong Kong, something we only realised during the trip and so then had the hassle of changing all the tickets!

Anyway, in summary, we changed the flights, ended up back in Bangkok rather than flying to Kuala Lumpur, and so there is no blog entry for Kuala Lumpur!

Mandi has, however, been to Kualal Lumpur in the past and so asked me to add that it is a really nice place and worth visiting. Although saying that, there have been places we have visited on this trip that Mandi has been to before that have changed completely (e.g. Lima airport apparently resembled a war zone last time Mandi was there, now it resembles the Trafford Centre!) so take it with a pinch of salt!

Steve

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